“They’re just video games. There are no social or racial stigmas attached to most video games. They’re electronic entertainment made for the masses, be you American, Chinese, Australian, African, Polynesian, Martian, Plutonian, or what have you.”
“They’re just video games. There are no social or racial stigmas attached to most video games. They’re electronic entertainment made for the masses, be you American, Chinese, Australian, African, Polynesian, Martian, Plutonian, or what have you.”
You’re Probably Not Really a Nice Guy (by the1janitor)
This video has surpassed 50,000 views! woooooo
Wanted to put this on here and was very pleased to find the dude’s actual tumblr account to reblog it from!
Aces.
Anyway, this is one of the best dissections of the “Nice Guy” condition I’ve ever heard.
“Friends get put in the friendzone because they are being very friendly” is pretty much the most accurate statement I’ve heard about this topic in a very, very long time.
Actually, most of what this guy says is spot the fuck on.
No fucking cookies for being a decent human being dudes, sorry, that’s fucking life. Grow a pair and make your own damn cookies if you need them to feel good about yourself.
No but seriously. Everything this guys said. Everything. Not just about “nice guys” but about any two people in a relationship ever (while highlighting and underlining the term ‘people’ for emphasis on the three dimensional personality characteristics of a human being that term entails)
most spot on video i’ve seen in awhile
“Your aggression is scaring away people who would want to help you!”
The war against racism will be a hard one, and white allies, real white allies, used to be willing to get attacked by the dogs, beaten up, and even lose their lives for the sake of equality. Now you’re gonna tell me that in 2013 I’m supposed to coddle a white ally who can’t even deal with me expression my disgust for his brothers and sisters do? Fuck outta here. No weak allies. If you can’t handle a couple of sassy black folks on a blog, you’re not equipped with the ovaries of steel required to fight against racism.
-Dion
“But everyone was racist back then! All our favorite historical figures were racist compared to today’s standards! It’s not fair to judge them based on contemporary ideas!”
Let’s debunk this favorite derailment spawned from the headcannons of the White History fandom.
1. “Everyone was racist back then!” Not true. There have always been equality movements in sects of oppressor classes. There were whites who opposed the slaughter of the Native Americans, who opposed slavery, etc. If you think these historical figures were only racist because the concept of equality didn’t exist, then I’d have to ask you when equality was invented. Truth is, equality has always existed and certain historical figures just chose to be on the wrong side of history instead.
2. “All our favorite historical figures would’ve been racist by today’s standards.” Maybe YOUR favorite historical figures were racist. Mine weren’t. You being able to acknowledge a person as racist but still respect them is just another part of your white privilege. Abraham Lincoln and Susan B. Anthony did some bad ass things, and I would love to respect and admire them, but I can’t because one of their main motivations was the idea that black people are not fully human. For you, racism is something that can be ignored when picking a favorite historical figure. For me, it’s a deal breaker.
3. “It’s not fair to judge them based on contemporary ideas!” And why the fuck not? The people that they oppressed/killed with those ideas didn’t get the benefit of the doubt, so why should they? You don’t have to answer that. I already know the answer.
If you consider yourself a fan of history, then own up for it. Don’t sweep it under the rug or try to ignore it. History isn’t some fictional story. It’s real shit that actually happened, and people actually died based on the racism of your favorite historical figures, the racism that you try to excuse, ignore, or downplay. A historian who tries to view racism without a contemporary lens is the same thing as a person who tries to view race from a colorblind perspective: a disingenuous liar trying to hide their preconceived notions behind a smokescreen of objectivity.
-Dion
You actually don’t even have to introduce yourself if you don’t want to, i don’t need an a/s/l, we don’t have to do the “hey whats up” “not much you?” thing, you can just say “so at school yesterday this idiot said…” in my ask box and I will gladly converse with you. Like seriously I will just talk to you like we’re best friends.
(Source: increasedappetite)
—Mychal Denzel Smith, “White People Have to Give Up Racism” (via thenationmagazine)
A very good definition of privilege.
(via blueandbluer)
I’m a white girl with a non-traditional name. A name that sounds like a not-a-white-girl name. I have no idea how many times I have heard some variation of “You’re white!?” with a variety of tones - surprise, relief, confusion, etc.
I have known about my white-girl privilege long before I even knew the term white-privilege.
I know, because I’ve seen how people’s attitudes change upon meeting me. I know that if I want to consistently be treated well, I need to stop by a service desk to ask for help, rather than calling. I know that if I want a better chance at getting a job, I need to drop applications off in person rather than emailing them (even if the job posting specifically requests emails). I know that if I want to request a sample of something, I need to stop by the business rather than requesting them by phone, because stopping by means I will usually get them for free.
I am rewarded for being white.
The one and only time this wasn’t the case was when I applied for a job at a company that (I later found out) was trying to “diversify.” My application was placed at the top of the interview pile partly because of my resume, but also partly because of my not-a-white-girl name. The “You’re white!?” this time was a tone of disappointment.
But you know what? I still got the job.
People of color are constantly denied things white people take for granted. They range from things from as minor as a “Have a nice day!” at the end of a phone call to time slots at a busy doctor’s office, jobs, apartments, and prompt help from mortgage lenders. My experiences with my not-a-white-girl name are negligible in comparison.
For that reason, I hesitated about writing this because, really, my story is nothing compared to what POC face every single day. But hopefully it helps even just one or two more people understand, as Mychal Denzel Smith writes in the article linked above: “The United States is a racist country and because of that, I, as a white person, am the beneficiary of power and privileges that have an adverse effect on citizens of color.”
Now go do something about it. ~JJ
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WANTED for wanting Freedom.
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